About a year ago… it was in December when someone who I considered a close friend. I had spend a year taking care of my mom and watching her die and that’s when I began blogging. I would send her my blogs and she would tell me that they were touching and emotional and was very supportive. Or so I thought. She accidentally send me a text by mistake sending a copy of my blog and telling this person the text was meant for how full of myself for thinking that anyone cares what I have to say and how conceited I was. I promptly responded back to her and thanked her for her input and for all the fake support she gave me through the years. And then I cried a thousand tears. I felt betrayed, judged and so deeply hurt.
Then guess what? Here we are almost in December, 1 year later and another person, who I thought was a close friend, does basically the same exact thing.
So last night I had decided that I would delete my blog and I posted about it on all my social media to let anyone who might care know. . I started to believe that maybe it was self absorbed of me to think anyone cares to read what I have to say. I could just journal instead. But I was extremely saddened about this decision. I have had severe anxiety this whole week which is not good for my diagnoses of diverticulosis.. I can’t sleep…I can’t eat.. I’ve been a mess. Blogging for me is therapeutic. I work things out and get out everything that if I keep bottled up I will end up doing very unhealthy options for both my mind and my body. But it’s more than that. Its a diary of the events of my life. I blogged all thru my mother’s illness and it helps me to go back and read how bad she was suffering and now she isn’t anymore. So when I’m missing her I read those blogs to help remind me she is in a better place.
THen something amazing happened this morning. I woke up to emails from friends and people I have never met who follow my blog and said please don’t stop. It helped them to hear someone else going through some of the things that they are also. They also encouraged me to not let someone else’s opinion effect how I live my life and I was like: DAMN RIGHT!
So my blog is back up…its private and you have to be approved to subscribe to it. I will not be posting it on my personal facebook page. Just my blog page.
So Thank you from the bottom of my heart for reminding me who I am. I don’t usually let people persuade me or question my intentions or actions. I don’t know why I didn’t pick up on these characteristics of these people earlier because they remind me so much of my step mom I should have known better. Only my step mom is one that will just shoot it straight and not care how it effects you. It’s harder to spot in people who have two faces.
EMP